A Family Lawyer’s Perspective on ‘Divorce Day’

17 Dec 2025

After two decades as a family lawyer, I’ve come to expect the annual flurry of headlines around January 6th. The media has dubbed it ‘D-Day’ or ‘Divorce Day,’ painting a picture of solicitors’ offices overwhelmed with couples rushing to end their marriages as the new year begins.

The reality, as with most aspects of family law, is far more nuanced.

Yes, we do see an increase in enquiries in early January, but it’s not the tidal wave that headlines might suggest. What we actually witness is the culmination of months, sometimes years, of careful consideration and reflection by individuals and couples.

The holiday season, with its extended break from work routines, often provides people with valuable time to pause and reflect on their lives. For some, this period of contemplation reinforces what they’ve been feeling for some time – that they need to make a change in their relationship.

When someone reaches out to us in January, they’re rarely making a sudden or impulsive decision. Instead, they’re usually taking a carefully considered step after long deliberation. The new year simply provides the impetus to act on thoughts that have been present for some time.

This is why it’s important not to dismiss these January enquiries as cliché or just another statistic in the ‘new year, new start’ narrative. Each person who contacts us is taking a significant and often difficult step in their life journey. They deserve support, understanding, and professional guidance, regardless of when they choose to make that first contact.

If you’re currently contemplating separation or divorce, know that there is no ‘right’ time to seek advice. Whether it’s January, June, or December, what matters is that you feel ready to explore your options and understand what lies ahead.

The family team at Mogers Drewett is here to provide that support whenever you need it. We offer not just legal expertise, but also understanding, discretion, and a thoughtful approach to what we know is a significant life decision.

Don’t feel pressured by headlines or statistics. Take the time you need to reflect and reach out when you feel ready. Our experienced team is here to listen and guide you through your options with the sensitivity and professionalism you deserve.

If you would like to speak to someone about your situation, the Family team in Bath, Sherborne, Wells and Frome is here to help. We can provide initial guidance and support as you consider your next steps.